Having witnessed my spouse‘s walk away from the Church, I am trying to learn how to help my kids walk toward it.

I haven’t posted in a while—on a major book deadline and have also been part of a Psalter Group (a 40 day reading of the book of...

When my husband first turned away from Faith, my greatest fear was how it might affect my young children.

“My response is more holy than my opinion or solution…or the very opposite if I’m not careful.”

When I finally realized that doctrine held little weight to my skeptical husband, I was free to surrender…

My best conversations about God with my teen is when I have to say, ‘I don’t know’. God isn’t misrepresented, and my teen stays present.

I often speak too hastily, too much, too flippantly…then the task ahead is a matter of undoing. Yet, there’s no such thing as unhearing.

For the first time in my life, I entered a season of church division a few months ago (although, I divided myself from the Orthodox Church

This quote kinda blew me away. In those early days of my husband’s deconversion, I defended and fought and demanded he listen….

When my husband first deconverted, I was in a mindset of fear…surrounded by people who gave the devil and demons way too much credit.

It’s easy to take Scripture for face value. If I absorb this for myself in my broken relationships, and think that my love is wrong…

We say, “Lord have mercy”, and I never thought of mercy as an action before. Even though the having makes it so.

If you’ve argued with an atheist before, you’ll know that Noah’s Ark is one of the go-to stories to try and disprove Biblical belief....

My daughter slipped past the kids craft and stepped into the Ash Wednesday experience set up for adults. She knows her faith, she owns it

We are seven years from unanswered prayer. I tear up thinking about my heart back then--the faithful expectation of a quick fix...

This might seem like a weird post for a blog about a Christian married to an Atheist, but if you understood how much these words are...

Measuring my loving marriage as a little less than the proud Christian couple over there? Once, it was tempting to do. Now I realize that...

One day, I was fearful of the tension and the possibility of my children slipping away into a faithless future. But this day?

Grief feels like a thief, yet it leaves a treasure behind. It is a gift to love deeper, more purely, and more desperately with the knowledge